FARAWAY.. NICKELBACK

This time, This place
Misused, Mistakes
Too long, Too late
Who was I to make you wait
Just one chance
Just one breath
Just in case there's just one left
'Cause you know,
you know, you know

[CHORUS]
That I love you
I have loved you all along
And I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreaming you'll be with me
and you'll never go
Stop breathing if
I don't see you anymore

On my knees, I'll ask
Last chance for one last dance
'Cause with you, I'd withstand
All of hell to hold your hand
I'd give it all
I'd give for us
Give anything but I won't give up
'Cause you know,
you know, you know

[CHORUS]
That I love you
I have loved you all along
And I miss you
Been far away for far too long
I keep dreaming you'll be with me
and you'll never go
Stop breathing if
I don't see you anymore

So far away
So far away
Been far away for far too long
So far away
So far away
Been far away for far too long
But you know, you know, you know

I wanted
I wanted you to stay
'Cause I needed
I need to hear you say
That I love you
I have loved you all along
And I forgive you
For being away for far too long
So keep breathing
'Cause I'm not leaving you anymore
Believe it
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
'Cause I'm not leaving you anymore
Believe it
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
Hold on to me and, never let me go
Keep breathing
Hold on to me and, never let me go

Hey, Jude, don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better

Hey, Jude, don't be afraid
You were made to go out and get her
The minute you let her under your skin
Then you begin to make it better.

And any time you feel the pain, hey, Jude, refrain
Don't carry the world upon your shoulders
Well don't you know that its a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder

Hey, Jude! Don't let her down
You have found her, now go and get her
Remember, to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better.

So let it out and let it in, hey, Jude, begin
You're waiting for someone to perform with
And don't you know that it's just you, hey, Jude,
You'll do, the movement you need is on your shoulder

Hey, Jude, don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better

DEAR JOHN...

I changed the pitch a little.
Lyricsssss;

Long were the nights when my days once revolved around you
Counting my footsteps,
praying the floor won't fall through, again
My mother accused me of losing my mind,
but I swore I was fine
You paint me a blue sky

and go back and turn it to rain
And I lived in your chess game,
but you changed the rules every day
Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone
tonight
Well I stopped picking up, and this song is to let you know why

Dear John,
I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress,
cried the whole way home.
I should've known

Well maybe it's me and my blind optimism to blame
Maybe it's you and your sick need to give love then take it away
And you'll add my name to your long list of traitors who don't understand
And I'll look back and regret how I ignored when they said "run as fast as you can"

Dear John,
I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress,
cried the whole way home

Dear John,
I see it all, now it was wrong
Don't you think 19 is too young to be played by your dark twisted games, when I loved you so?
I should've known

You are an expert at sorry,
and keeping lines blurry
Never impressed by me acing your tests
All the girls that you run dry
with tired, lifeless eyes
cause you burned them out
But I took your matches before fire could catch me,
so don't look now:
I'm shining like fireworks over your sad, empty town

Dear John,
I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress,
cried the whole way home.
I see it all now that you're gone

Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress wrote you a song
You should've known
You should've known
Don't you think I was too young?
You should've known

FREE FALLIN

Shes a good girl, loves her mam a
Loves jesus and america too
Shes a good girl, crazy bout elvis
Loves horses and her boyfriend too

Its a long day living in reseda
Theres a freeway runnin through the yard
And Im a bad boy cause I dont even miss her
Im a bad boy for breakin her heart

And Im free, free fallin
Yeah Im free, free fallin

All the vampires walkin through the valley
Move west down ventura boulevard
And all the bad boys are standing in the shadows
A ll the good girls are home with broken hearts

And Im free, free fallin
Yeah Im free, free fallin
Free fallin, now Im free fallin, now im
Free fallin, now Im free fallin, now im

I wanna glide down over mulholland
I wanna write her name in the sky
Gonna free fall out into nothin
Gonna leave this world for a while

And Im free, free fallin
Yeah Im free, free fallin

Everything But The Girl - I Don't Want to Talk About It

I can tell by your eyes that you've prob'bly been cryin' forever,
and the stars in the sky don't mean nothin' to you, they're a mirror.
I don't wanna talk about it, how you broke my heart.
If I stay here just a little bit longer,
If I stay here, won't you listen to my heart, whoa, heart?

If I stand all alone, will the shadow hide the colors of my heart;
blue for the tears, black for the night's fears.
The star in the sky don't mean nothin' to you, they're a mirror.
I don't wanna talk about it, how you broke my heart.
If I stay here just a little bit longer,
if I stay here, won't you listen to my heart, whoa, my heart?
I don't wanna talk about it, how you broke this ol' heart.

If I stay here just a little bit longer,
if I stay here, won't you listen to my heart, whoa, my heart?
My heart, whoa, heart.

"Don't worry about a thing,",'Cause every little thing gonna be all right.

"Don't worry about a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right.
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"

Rise up this mornin',
Smiled with the risin' sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin' sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Sayin', ("This is my message to you-ou-ou:")

Singin': "Don't worry 'bout a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right."
Singin': "Don't worry (don't worry) 'bout a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"

Rise up this mornin',
Smiled with the risin' sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin' sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Sayin', "This is my message to you-ou-ou:"

Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, worry about a thing, oh!
Every little thing gonna be all right. Don't worry!"
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing" - I won't worry!
"'Cause every little thing gonna be all right."

Singin': "Don't worry about a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right" - I won't worry!
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right."
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing, oh no!
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!

◦°˚˚°◦oђёђёђё◦°◦☺˚˚°◦O◦°˚˚​° Listen hard to the silence,u'll hear things u've never imagined.. ". Men are like stars. There are millions of them but only ONE can make your dreams come true....◦°˚˚°◦oђёђёђё◦°◦☺˚​˚°◦Oo◦°˚˚°

Satu Bintang Dilangit Kelam.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 7 Juli 2011 pukul 23:34
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Angkasa tanpa pesan
Merengkuh smakin dalam..
Berslimut debu wktu
Kumenanti
...Cemas...

Kau dtg dgn sederhana
Satu bintang dilangit kelam..
Sinarmu rimba pesona..
Dan kutahu...
Tlah tersesat...

Kukejar kau, takkan bertepi...
Menggapaimu.. Takkan bersambut
Sendiri memendung rasa ini..
Sementara kau membeku..

Hayalku.. Terrbuai jauh
Pelita kecilmu.. Mengalir pelan...
Dan aku tak paham..

Redup kilaumu tak mengarah..
Jadilah diriku selatan..

Namun tak kau sadari
Hingga kini.. Dan nanti.. :)


A dream is just a dream until u make it come true (з´⌣`ε)

what are three ways to win your heart? First, the guy has to be musically talented, dancing talented and sports talented. Second, he has to have a really charming smile Third, he needs to be taller than me :) like my head will be the same level as his shoulder :))

Oh her eyes, her eyes
Make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying

She's so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Yeah I know, I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don't see what I see

But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

Her nails, her nails
I could kiss them all day if she'd let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy

She's so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Oh you know, you know, you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you're searching for
Then just stay the same

So don't even bother asking
If you look okay
You know I say

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

The way you are
The way you are
Girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

Dont go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Dont imagine youre too familiar
And I dont see you anymore
I wouldnt leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, Ill take the bad times
Ill take you just the way you are

Dont go trying some new fashion
Dont change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I dont want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you and thats forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.

*Do you want to know a secret?,* BEATLES.... You'll never know how much I really love you.

You'll never know how much I really love you.
You'll never know how much I really care.

Listen,
You'll never know how much I really love you.
You'll never know how much I really care.

Listen,
Do you want to know a secret?,
Do you promise not to tell?, whoa oh, oh.

Closer,
Let me whisper in your ear,
Say the words you long to hear,
I'm in love with you.

Listen,
Do you want to know a secret?,
Do you promise not to tell?, whoa oh, oh.

Closer,
Let me whisper in your ear,
Say the words you long to hear,
I'm in love with you.

I've known the secret for a week or two,
Nobody knows, just we two.

Listen,
Do you want to know a secret?,
Do you promise not to tell?, whoa oh, oh.

Closer,
Let me whisper in your ear,
Say the words you long to hear,
I'm in love with you.
Do you promise not to tell?, whoa oh, oh.

Closer,
Let me whisper in your ear,
Say the words you long to hear,
I'm in love with you.

Listen,
Do you want to know a secret?,
Do you promise not to tell?, whoa oh, oh.

Closer,
Let me whisper in your ear,
Say the words you long to hear,
I'm in love with you.

I've known the secret for a week or two,
Nobody knows, just we two.

Listen,
Do you want to know a secret?,
Do you promise not to tell?, whoa oh, oh.

Closer,
Let me whisper in your ear,
Say the words you long to hear,
I'm in love with you.

im falling you
I'm falling you
I'm falling you You set me on fire
i'm feeling sad you make me mad
i am lost in the silence

Cuz' you think you're life With another one
Is better for you Cuz' you feel inside
You left me alone Waiting for nothing
When you see the light of the morning star
Then you feel my absence,and your love
Why fighting you if you ready to goooo awayyy...
miles away miles away I'm just happy for you
I'm just happy for you
When you cry for ME

TRUK SAMPAH.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 7 Juli 2011 pukul 15:10
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HUKUM TRUK SAMPAH



Suatu hari saya naik sebuah taxi dan menuju ke Bandara. Kami melaju

pada jalur yang benar ketika tiba-tiba sebuah mobil hitam melompat

keluar dari tempat parkir tepat di depan kami. Supir taxi menginjak

pedal rem dalam-dalam hingga ban mobil berdecit dan berhenti hanya

beberapa cm dari mobil tersebut.



Pengemudi mobil hitam tersebut mengeluarkan kepalanya dan memaki ke arah kami.>:O >:O Supir taxi hanya tersenyum dan melambai pada orang

:) tersebut.



Saya sangat heran dengan sikapnya yang bersahabat.



Saya bertanya, "Mengapa anda melakukannya? Orang itu hampir merusak mobil anda dan dapat saja mengirim kita ke rumah sakit!"



Saat itulah saya belajar dari supir taxi tersebut mengenai apa yang saya kemudian sebut "Hukum Truk Sampah".



Ia menjelaskan bahwa banyak orang seperti truk sampah. Mereka berjalan

keliling membawa sampah, seperti frustrasi, kemarahan, kekecewaan.

Seiring dengan semakin penuh kapasitasnya, semakin mereka membutuhkan tempat untuk membuangnya, dan seringkali mereka membuangnya kepada anda.



Jangan ambil hati, tersenyum saja, lambaikan tangan, lalu lanjutkan hidup.



Jangan ambil sampah mereka untuk kembali membuangnya kepada orang lain yang anda temui, di tempat kerja, di rumah atau dalam perjalanan.



Intinya, orang yang sukses adalah orang yang tidak membiarkan "truk

sampah" mengambil alih hari-hari mereka dengan merusak suasana

hati.3



Hidup ini terlalu singkat untuk bangun di pagi hari dengan penyesalan,

maka kasihilah orang yang memperlakukan anda dengan benar, berdoalah bagi yang tidak.O:)



Hidup itu 10% mengenai apa yang kau buat dengannya dan 90% tentang bagaimana kamu menghadapinya. Hidup bukan mengenai menunggu badai berlalu, tapi tentang bagaimana belajar menari dalam hujan.:D



Selamat menikmati hidup:)

my favo... cos i love him so much

Satu Bintang Dilangit Kelam.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 7 Juli 2011 pukul 23:34
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Angkasa tanpa pesan
Merengkuh smakin dalam..
Berslimut debu wktu
Kumenanti
...Cemas...

Kau dtg dgn sederhana
Satu bintang dilangit kelam..
Sinarmu rimba pesona..
Dan kutahu...
Tlah tersesat...

Kukejar kau, takkan bertepi...
Menggapaimu.. Takkan bersambut
Sendiri memendung rasa ini..
Sementara kau membeku..

Hayalku.. Terrbuai jauh
Pelita kecilmu.. Mengalir pelan...
Dan aku tak paham..

Redup kilaumu tak mengarah..
Jadilah diriku selatan..

Namun tak kau sadari
Hingga kini.. Dan nanti.. :)

kesimpulan cerita dongeng gw...


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 8 Juli 2011 pukul 3:31
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Why was Snow White given an apple with poison ?
To show that not all people are as kind as what they pretend to be.


Mengapa putri Salju diberi apel dengan racun? Untuk menunjukkan bahwa tidak semua orang baik seperti yg terlihat

Why did Cinderella have to run away when the clock stroke midnight ?
To remind us that everything has limitations even dreams.

Mengapa Cinderella yang harus lari ketika jam menandakan sudah tengah malam ? Untuk mengingatkan kita bahwa segala sesuatu memiliki keterbatasan bahkan mimpi.

Why did Ariel decide to exchange her fins with feet ?
To show that anyone is willing to give up anything just to be happy.

Mengapa Ariel memutuskan untuk bertukar sirip dengan kaki? Untuk menunjukkan bahwa ada yang bersedia untuk mengorbankan apa pun hanya untuk menjadi bahagia.

Why did Beauty get in love with the Beast ?
To show us that Beauty is NOT everything , we have to look at the Personality 1st!!!

Mengapa Beauty mencintai The Beast? Untuk menunjukkan kepada kita bahwa Kecantikan TIDAK segalanya, kita harus melihat Kepribadian no 1!
So true!!

Jagalah hatimu dengan segala kewaspadaan, karena dari situlah terpancar kehidupan. ( Amsal 4 : 23 ).


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 8 Juli 2011 pukul 12:02
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Hidup manusia seperti sebuah buku.
cover depan adalah tgl lahir.
cover belakang adalah tgl kematian.

Tiap lembarnya, adalah tiap² hari dalam hidup kita dan apa yg kita lakukan.

Ada buku yg tebal,
ada buku yg tipis.

Ada buku yg menarik dibaca,
ada yg tidak sama sekali.

Sekali menulis, tidak akan pernah berhenti sampai selesai.
Yg hebatnya, seburuk apapun halaman sebelumnya, selalu tersedia halaman selanjutnya yg putih bersih, baru dan tiada cacat.

Sama dengan hidup kita,
seburuk apapun kemarin,
Tuhan selalu menyediakan hari yang baru untuk kita.

Kita selalu diberi kesempatan yg baru utk melakukan sesuatu yg benar dalam hidup kita setiap harinya, memperbaiki kesalahan kita dan melanjutkan alur cerita yg sudah ditetapkanNya untuk kita masing².

Bersyukur utk hari ųğ baru ini.

Nikmatilah dan isilah halaman buku kehidupanmu dgn hal² yg benar.

Dan jangan lupa, untuk selalu bertanya kepada Tuhan, tentang apa yg harus ditulis tiap² harinya.

Supaya pada saat halaman terakhir buku kehidupanmu selesai, engkau didapati sebagai pribadi yg berkenan kepadaNya.

Dan buku kehidupanmu layak untuk dijadikan teladan bagi generasi setelahnya.

Selamat menulis di buku kehidupanmu, dengan tinta cinta dan pena kebijakan.

SABAAAAAAR......!!! >̴̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡

MyLove.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 30 Juli 2011 pukul 2:08
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I praise Allah for sending me you ...
my love ...
You found me home and sail with me ..
And I`m here with you.

Now let me let you know ..
You`ve opened my heart ...
I was always thinking that love was wrong...

But everything was changed when you came along...
OOOOO....
And theres a couple words I want to say For the rest of my life ...

I`ll be with you I`ll stay by your side...
honest and true ,
Till the end of my time.. I`ll be loving you..

. loving you For the rest of my life,
Thru days and night

I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes ..
Now and forever,

II`ll be there for you..
I know that deep in my heart ...
I feel so blessed ...
when I think of you ,And I ask Allah to bless all we do...

♡ ♥ ◦You`re my wife and my friend and my strength ♡ ♥ ◦°˚˚°
And I pray we`re together ..eternally

Now I find myself so strong Everything changed,

when you came along. OOOO ,,
And theres a couple word I want to say ...
For the rest of my life..

I`ll be with you,
I`ll stay by your side..

honest and true .
Till the end of my time...

I`ll be loving you. loving you ...

For the rest of my life Thru days and night..

I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes ...
Now and forever II`ll be there for you ...
I know that deep in my heart..
now that you`re here Infront of me ..
I strongly feel love..
And I have no doubt

And I`m singing loud that I`ll love you..

eternally For the rest of my life,
I`ll be with you I`ll stay by your side honest and true ..
Till the end of my time I`ll be loving you.
loving you...

For the rest of my life Thru days and night..

I`ll thank Allah for open my eyes ..
Now and forever II`ll be there for you I know that .....

promise me...... (з´⌣`ε).


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 13 Agustus 2011 pukul 10:35
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You light up another cigarette
And I pour the wine
It's four o'clock in the morning
And it's starting to get light
Now I'm right where I want to be
Losing track of time
But I wish that it was still last night

You look like you're in another world
But I can read your mind
How can you be so far away
Lying by my side
When I go away I'll miss you
And I will be thinking of you Every night and day just...

Promise me you'll wait for me
'cos I'll be saving all my love for you
And I will be home soon
Promise me you'll wait for me
I need to know you feel the same way too
And I'll be home,
I'll be home soon

When I go away I'll miss you
And I will be thinking of you
Every night and day just...
Promise me you'll wait for me
'cos I'll be saving all my love for you
And I will be home soon
Promise me you'll wait for me
I need to know you feel the same way too And I'll be home, I'll be home soon

Promise me you'll wait for me
'cos I'll be saving all my love for you
And I will be home soon
Promise me you'll wait for me
I need to know you feel the same way too And I'll be home, I'll be home soon

some people care too much.. I think .. that's LOVE.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 1 Agustus 2011 pukul 0:20
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"Love, it's not just "I love you" but "My triple A (Affection, Attention, Appreciation) for you!"

" Love, it's not just "don't worry" but "I'll never give you reason too"

"Love, it's not just "don't go there" but "let me go with you"
" Love, isn't just "you can trust me" but "I'll never make you doubt"

"Love, it's not just "I'm sorry" but "I'll never hurt you again"

" Love, it's not just "I'm here" but "I'll never leave you"

My love...
"Sometimes you cant believe what you see,but you have to believe what you feel

Sincerely zhivapatzie

FICTION.......... AVENGED SEVENFOLD Let's flip a coin. If its heads,ur mine. If its tails, I'm ur's.

FICTION.......... AVENGED SEVENFOLD Let's flip a coin. If its heads,ur mine. If its tails, I'm ur's.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 15 Agustus 2011 pukul 19:06
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now i think i understand how this world can over come a man

like a friend we saw it through,

in the end i gave my life for you



gave you all i had to give,

found a place for me to rest my head

while i may be hard to find,

heard there's peace just on the other side

(REV SINGING)

not that i could or that i would let it burn,under my skin let it burn



left this life to set me free, took a piece of you inside of me

all this hurt can finally fade, promise me you'll never feel afraid

not that i could, or that i would, let it burn, under my skin,let it burn



i hope it's worth it out on the highway, i hope you'll find your own way when i'm not with you



so tell everybody, the ones who walked beside me,yeah

i hope you find your own way when i'm not with you tonight

i hope it's worth it,what's left behind me,yeah

i know you'll find your own way when i'm not with you

so tell everybody the ones who walked beside me,yeah

i know you'll find your own way when i'm not with you tonight





Song by : Avenged sevenfold

i do not own the song or avenged sevenfold

LUCIFER ANGEL,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, He's the king of mixed signals n I'm the queen of second thought...;p.

LUCIFER ANGEL,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, He's the king of mixed signals n I'm the queen of second thought...;p.


oleh Patrizia Zhiva pada 15 Agustus 2011 pukul 19:01
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Behind those eyes lies the truth

and grief

Behind those beautiful smiles

I've seen tragedy

The flawless skin hides

the secrets within

The silent forces that secretly ignite

your sins

Fly away

fly away

From the torch of blame

They hunt you-the Lucifer's Angel



Never lived

you never died

Your life has been denied

They call you

Lucifer's Angel



Beyond these clouds you can

hide all your tears

Beyond this world you'll be safe

from their wicked fears

And in their hearts they fear

your demands

You know their minds

won't accept you, they'll never

understand



Fly away

fly away

From the torch of blame

They hunt you

Lucifer's Angels



You never lived

you never died

Your life has been denied

They call you

Lucifer's Angel



On your own

I know you can make it

truth or bone

I know you can shake it

Survive alone

I know you can take it

ohhhohhhohhh



Fly away

Fly away

From the torch of blame

They hunt you-the Lucifer's Angel



You never lived, you never died

Your life has been denied

They call you

Lucifer's Angel



Fly away

Fly away

Run away

Run away

Hide away

Hide away-Lucifer's Angel



Fly away

Fly away

Run away

Run away

Hide away

Hide away-Lucifer's Angel



Fly away

Fly away

Run away

Run away

Hide away

Hide away-Lucifer's Angel

When you find yourself on your own,

Remember that you are not alone,

And when your feeling down and blue,

Remember that I'll always love you.



When I am not here with you,

Remember that our love is pure and true,

I think about you every night and day,

When Im with you I want to stay.



I hope you will always remember me,

Coz' I will remember you for eternity

I never want to let you go,

Coz' I love you more than you could ever know.



If there was anything I could do,

I would do it just to please you,

You know its well and truly true,

I would do anything for you.

When your looking at the stars,

in the eternal blue

Remember that each star out there

Is a reason why I love you

And when you think your alone,

and when no one is there at all

I'll be right in front of you,

to catch you when you fall

*•Yaa Rabbi•* Ajarilah kami bagaimana memberi sebelum meminta,berfikir sebelum bertindak,santun dalam berbicara,tenang ketika gundah,diam ketika emosi melanda,bersabar dalam setiap ujian.Jadikanlah kami orang yg selembut Abu Bakar Ash-Shiddiq,sebijaksana Umar bin Khattab,sedermawan Utsman bin Affan,sepintar Ali bin Abi Thalib,sesederhana Bilal,setegar Khalid bin Walid radliallahu'anhumღAmiin ya Rabbal'alamin.

“Dan di antara tanda-tanda kekuasaan-Nya adalah Dia menciptakan untuk kamu pasangan-pasangan dari jenis kamu sendiri, supaya kamu cenderung dan merasa tenteram kepadanya, dan dijadikan-Nya di antara kamu mawaddah dan rahmat. Sesungguhnya pada yang demikian itu benar-benar terdapat tanda-tanda bagi kaum yang berfikir.” (QS Ar-Rum [30]:21) Dari ayat tersebut telah jelas bahawa manusia diciptakan Allah dengan pasangannya. Jadi jangan merasa berkecil hati jika saat ini masih ada yang belum menemui jodohnya atau telah bertemu jodoh dan Allah berkehendak lain dengan jodoh tersebut Urusan jodoh memang seringkali dikaitkan dengan “rahasia Tuhan” yang mengejutkan.Seseorang yang berparas menarik dan memiliki sekian kelebihan, tetapi tidak menemui pasangan. Sementara seseorang yang dipandang biasa-biasa saja lebih cepat berkahwin.Jodoh memang sudah ditentukannya tetapi bukan bererti kita cuma berdiam diri tanpa adanya usaha. “Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah nasib suatu kaum kecuali kaum itu sendiri yang mengubah apa apa yang pada diri mereka ”

QS 13:11 Menemukan pasangan menuntut sejumlah usaha aktif yang komprehensif. Usaha-usaha positif dalam menemukan pasangan dapat disebut sebagai “menjemput jodoh”. Bagi orang yang beriman, berdoa adalah puncak segala usaha. Bahkan Islam menyebut doa sebagai silah al-mu’min (senjata mu’min). Dalam mengenali pasangan, manusia tetap dibatasi kemampuannya untuk melihat pada aspek-aspek fizikal jasmani dan hal-hal yang nampak dimata. Sementara aspek batin yang tersembunyi tetaplah milik Allah. Solat Istikarah merupakan upaya untuk memohon kepada Tuhan dalam membantu memilih calon pasangan. Jangan terburu-buru untuk menolah atau menerima sebelum upaya berdoa ini dilakukan agar tidak salah pilih. Begitu dahsyatnya keajaiban solat istikarah dalam memantapkan hati dalam menentukan pilihan, Bahawasanya orang yang telah melaksanakan solat istikarah hendaklah melaksanakan apa yang telah diazamkannya, baik hatinya menjadi terbuka maupun tidak . Bermunajat pada Allah dalam sepertiga malamnya memohon diberikan pilihan terbaik dalam hidupnya sebuah petunjuk dalam memantapkan hati mengenai jodoh yang menjadi misteriNYA. Diatas Sajadah malam ini aku tertunduk pada gelap dan pekatnya malam, meraba rahsia Mu Ya Allah atas jodoh yang kan kau pilihkan untukku istikarah mencari jawapan untuk menggapai alhub fillah wa lillah dalam doa ku bersimpuh pasrah memohon datangnya jawapan kepada Sang Pemberi hidayah bila jawaban itu masih menggantung di langit maka turunkanlah bila jawapan itu masih terpendam di perut bumi maka keluarkanlah bila jawapan itu sulit ku raih maka mudahkanlah bila jawapan itu masih jauh maka dekatkanlah Duhai kekasih sejati, Engkau Maha cahaya,

Engkau Cahaya di atas Cahaya. Dalam kerinduan mendalam, dalam tatih meniti Pintu Cahaya, Aku di sini, bersimpuh untuk menjemput CINTA, Cinta Seseorang Yang telah kau pilihkan semoga kan abadi di dunia dan Akhirat “Ya Allah, Tuhan yang Maha Memiliki Rahsia, Tuhan yang Maha memegang kasih sayang seluruh jiwa kami, Tuhan yang Maha Penentu, Tuhan yang Maha Menyatukan jiwa-jiwa kami, ya Allah, aku merupakan hamba yang lemah, hamba yang tidak mampu mengawal diriku daripada fitrah seorang manusia yang memerlukan teman, memerlukan kekasih, memerlukan suami/isteri, memerlukan keluarga. Ya Allah aku tidak mampu menahan diriku daripada terjeremus ke dalam kemaksiatan. Ya Allah, jika masanya telah tiba,

jika apa yang aku mohon ini merupakan sesuatu yang terbaik disisiMu Ya Allah, terbaik buat agamaku Ya Allah, terbaik buat diriku, keluarga dan seluruh mukminin dan mukminat Ya Allah, maka aku memohon kepadaMu YaAllah agar aku ditemukan dengan jodoh yang terbaik di sisiMu Ya Allah. Setiap yang terbaik di sisiMu Ya Allah, pasti terbaik buat diriku Ya Allah. Namun Ya Allah, jika masanya untuk dipertemukan dengan jodohku belum tiba YaAllah, maka Ya Allah, aku memohon kepadaMu agar Kau tunjukkan jalan-jalan untuk aku memiliki jodohku Ya Allah. Aku memohon agar Kau tunjukkan aku tuntutun-tuntutanMu yang perlu aku lakukan untuk memiliki jodohku Ya Allah. Ya Allah, Tuhan yang Maha Memakbulkan doa, Tuhan yang Maha Penentu jodoh, Ya Allah jauhilah aku daripada kemaksiatan, jauhilah aku daripada perkara-perkara yang tidak dapat memberikan manfaat, jauhilah aku daripada perkara-perkara yang Engkau murkai dan perkara-perkara yang menyesatkan diriku Ya Allah. Amin

Jadi, bagi yang belum bertemu jodoh, bersikap optimislah, temui serta jemputlah calon jodoh anda dengan ikhtiar yang maksimum. Yakinlah bahawa Allah telah menentukan segala sesuatu berpasang-pasangan. Mudah-mudahan Allah membimbing usaha anda untuk sampai kepada jodoh yang ditakdirkan. Amin.

Jangan menyerah kegagalan yang pernah terjadi dalam menjemput jodoh bukan bererti kegagalan selamanya. Satu prinsip yang kan selalu melekat dihati ” La Tahzan Innalloha Ma’ana” Senyum terindah untuk jodoh yang Allah telah persiapkan. Aamiin ya Rabbal'alamin

Seseorang yg memamerkan Kekayaannya
Padaku sama saja halnya dgn Pengemis yg Memamerkan Kemiskinannya...
kedua2nya sama2 mengharapkan Sedekahku...
Si Kaya, mengharapkan SEDEKAH rasa CEMBURUKU...
si Miskin mengharapkan SEDEKAH rasa BERSALAHKU..

Hmm.. Mungkiin setelah membaca Ini.. Baru kalian sadar..
“Ketika pohon terakhir layu, ketika sungai terakhir sudah diracuni
dan ketika ikan terakhir sudah ditangkap,

barulah pada saat itu kita menyadari bahwa uang tidak ada artinya”...
Tidak ada lg yg bs dipamerkan.sombong itu merugikan..

Tanpa ku ketahui dan tanpa ku sedari,
Pemikiran ku dipenjarai,
Hatiku diracuni, Oleh sistem dunia yang berevolusi.
Suatu hari, Mataku menatap kaca TV,
Khusyuk meneliti penderitaan yang kau alami,

Di bumi yang di berkahi. Pikiranku mencari,
Mencari penyebab atas kepahitan yang ku rasakan,
Hatiku butuhkan solusi, Namun tiada yang menepati.
Berlalu pergi sang masa; Walaupun diriku hampa,

Dan jiwa yang bergelora,
jawaban yang belum kujumpa,
Tapi semangat dan perjuanganku buatku bangga....