Kamis, 22 Agustus 2013

How to Tell if My Boyfriend is Missing Me?

There are times in a relationship when a couple needs to move away from each other physically. It might be because of circumstances such a job change or may be because of a temporary breakup after an argument. As a girl, when you miss a guy it is quite common to wonder if he misses you just the same. 

May be you parted ways after an argument and now you want to know if he misses you or may be you just moved away from each other physically because of an unavoidable circumstance, but your relationship is still intact and you still want to know that he misses you. 

The problem is that men are not very expressive of their emotions because they think it’s not manly to sound needy or desperate. So even if he is missing you he may not be blatant about communicating this.

How to Know a Guy Misses Me?

Girls often ask - how to tell if he misses me, especially when they get confusing signals. So what are the signs that he misses you? That’s what this article is about.

You Can Feel It In His Voice

When a man says he misses you, it is obvious that he does based on the tone of his voice. Most men have an unconscious transparency to their nature so what’s in their heart will reflect in the tone of their voice. There’s usually a mellowness that indicates the hollow in his heart because he misses his beloved.

He Talks Less While Calling

If he is missing you he is bound to feel the distance even more when he talks to you over a call because it will only remind him of the distance. It’s quite natural for guys to talk less when they feel a lot of emotion. So if you notice your man talking less when you are away it could well indicate that he is missing you. Of-course talking less could also mean that he is not interested in having a talk, so it’s really important to judge the tone of his voice before you take this as a sign that he misses you.

He Suddenly Messages Or Calls You At Odd Times

Guys are very impulsive when it comes to dealing with emotions. If his mind rushes in with a flood of memories about the times you were together, he is bound to take some action in response to this emotion – he might message you or call you on this impulse. If you get a message in your mobile late in the night saying “miss you” – it would mean that he is either sleepless because of the separation or he just woke up dreaming about you. A definite sign that he misses you.

He Gets Very Emotional While Talking To You

Men are very wary about exposing their intimate feelings. So if he is feeling lonely, because he is missing you, he will shy away from saying it directly. But if you talk with some softness, and he sees that you are not being cold, he will take the chance of opening up to you. Men do cry but it’s usually when the feeling goes beyond the threshold of their tolerance. So if he breaks down while talking to you know that he is really missing you.

He Talks About The Old Times

If he brings up the old memories of the two of you being together, while talking to you, it means that he is running these thoughts in his own mind. He might be trying to gauge if these memories have the same effect on you, to see if you are missing him as well. It does show that he is missing you and thinking about you.

He’s Counting The Days To Meet You

If you are away from each other because of some unavoidable circumstance, you will know that he is missing you by the inferences he makes about the number of days left before you can meet up again. He might even talk about the things he plans on doing with you when the two of you meet up. How to know a man misses me? Just see how desperate he is to get you back in his arms. 

Don’t always wait for your boyfriend to say directly that he misses you, some guys may never do that because of their male ego or conditioning in manliness. When he shows a sign that he misses you, just call him up on it. Sometimes this lack of understanding can lead to the parting away of a couple who still love each other. 

Senin, 24 Juni 2013

ONE DAY ...



Sometimes I lay Under the moon And thank God I'm breathing

Then I pray Don't take me soon

'Cause I am here for a reason
 Sometimes in my tears I drown
 But I never let it get me down
 So when negativity surrounds I know
 some day it'll all turn around because... 
All my life I've been waiting
 for I've been praying for
 For the people to say 
That we don't wanna fight no more
 There will be no more wars 
And our children will play One day [x6] 
It's not about Win or lose
 Because we all lose 
When they feed on the souls of the innocent 
Blood-drenched pavement 
Keep on moving though the waters stay raging
 In this maze you can lose your way (your way
) It might drive you crazy but don't let it faze you no way (no way) 
Sometimes in my tears I drown (I drown) 
But I never let it get me down (get me down) 
So when negativity surrounds (surround)
I know some day it'll all turn around because... 
All my life I've been waiting
 for I've been praying for
 For the people to say 
That we don't wanna fight no more
 There will be no more wars 
And our children will play One day [x6] 
One day this all will change 
Treat people the same
 Stop with the violence 
Down with the hate One day we'll all be free 
And proud to be Under the same sun 
Singing songs of freedom like One day [x2] 
All my life I've been waiting for
 I've been praying for
 For the people to say
 That we don't wanna fight no more 
There will be no more warS 
 And our children will play
 One day

Senin, 01 April 2013

Hakikat sebuah cinta

Lalu tersentak diriku sedari lamunan, 
 kini sebenarny aku telah kau tinggalkan..
. Aku adalah insan yg tak punya, 
 kilauan emas permata... 
Lalu kucoba menaburi cinta,
 bagimu tiada nilainya...
 Tiada harta hanya
cinta...

Selasa, 19 Maret 2013

Zhiva,
Meskipun hal2 buruk telah terjadi diantara kita akhir2 ini.
Aku selalu bersyukur atas hadirnya kamu dalam hidupku selama 12 tahun terakhir.
 Aku bersyukur telah tumbuh menjadi lebih dewasa bersama kamu. Dewasa dalam iman, pekerjaan dan keluarga.
 Aku bersyukur atas hadiah yg tidak ternilai dari kamu, yaitu hadirnya 3 anak2 yg cantik dan ganteng. Anak2 yang pintar, sopan dan membahagiakan setiap moment dalam hidupku. Anak2 yang takut akan Tuhan, yg dalam beberapa situasi, aku malah belajar dari mereka.

Zhiva, saat ini aku sedang mendengarkan khotbah pendeta yg sedang membicarakan pandangan Kristen tentang perceraian.... Ironis sekali bagiku, krn ditempat yg sama 26 agustus 2000, pendeta Agus mengajarkan kita ttg pernikahan menurut kristen, kemudian diikuti oleh sumpah setia diantara kita berdua.

Malam ini, untuk pertama kalinya kita berada ditempat terpisah dan tanpa perayaan syukur bersama keluarga. Tp doaku selalu bersamamu.

Akupun telah belajar untuk mengenal keadaan. Rasa sesalku adalah bukan terhadap perceraian yg terjadi, tapi sikap bermusuhan yg tengah terjadi diantara kita.
Sampai kapan kita membiarkan hal ini terjadi terus?
Apakah ini adalah contoh yg terbaik yg kita bisa berikan kepada anak2 dan adik2 kita?
Dimana tanggung jawab kita sbg orang tua dan anak tertua dalam keluarga.

Jujur aku gak tau apa yg sedang terjadi dan bagaimanakah semua ini akan berakhir. Walaupun ego-ku berkata hal2 yg negative, tp hatiku tetap mencintaimu.

Good bye my lover, my friend. U had been the one for me.... (James Blunt)

Christob's











Kebetulan aku teringat kesalahanku kpd kamu. Sewaktu kamu jemput aku dr singapore... Aku terlalu kasar sama kamu. Maaf ya.

Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone from Sinyal Bagus XL, Nyambung Teruuusss...!

-----Original Message-----
From: Christobs
Date: Sun, 26 Aug 2012 14:32:47

Jumat, 08 Maret 2013

anything Could Happent Stripped to the waist We fall into the river Cover your eyes So you don't know the secret I've been trying to hide We held our breath To see our names are written On the wreck of '86 That was the year I knew the panic was over Yes since we found out Since we found out That anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could After the war we said we'd fight together I guess we thought that's just what humans do Letting darkness grow As if we need its palette and we need its colour But now I've seen it through And now I know the truth That anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could Baby, I'll give you everything you need I'll give you everything you need, oh I'll give you everything you need But I don't think I need you Stripped to the waist We fall into the river Cover your eyes So you don't know the secret I've been trying to hide We held our breath To see our names are written On the wreck of '86 That was the year I knew the panic was over Yes since we found out Since we found out That anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be But I don't think I need you But I don't think I need you But I don't think I need you Send "Anything Could Happen" Ringtone to your Cell If you believe the Ellie Goulding Anything Could Happen lyrics are not correct you can correct them Anything could happen Anything could After the war we said we'd fight together I guess we thought that's just what humans do Letting darkness grow As if we need its palette and we need its colour But now I've seen it through And now I know the truth That anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could Baby, I'll give you everything you need I'll give you everything you need, oh I'll give you everything you need But I don't think I need you Stripped to the waist We fall into the river Cover your eyes So you don't know the secret I've been trying to hide We held our breath To see our names are written On the wreck of '86 That was the year I knew the panic was over Yes since we found out Since we found out That anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could happen Anything could I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be I know it's gonna be But I don't think I need you But I don't think I need you But I don't think I need you

Senin, 26 November 2012

ARIO BAYU PUTRO





I'm caught in the midst of your caution
 You breathe and I exhale
 If there's one thing I would clarify
 One little thing I would justify Is my love for you
 My love for you... I can go the distance 
I can be your choice
 I will be your medicine 
 Just when you need more...
 If loving is your target 
Then aim yourself at me 
Cause I can go the distance 
If you believe...
 If you believe...-
For my love.

Tentang As Hati


Dia muncul dan ada. 
Menyelamatkan aku yg berada di ambang kekalahan. 
Ketika kartu ini jelek terbayang akan kekalahanku dalam permainan ini. 


Tetapi ini bukan permainan. 
Nilai yang sangat tinggi dan berbentuk hati dan melambangkan cinta.. 



Iya.. Dirimu yang selalu ada di depanku. Belum banyak tatapan yg kau berikan. 
Tapi berikan arti yang menjadikannya sebuah cerita, di dalam hati. 
Ya,, hanya cerita untukku sendiri.. 



Tentang As Hati hanyalah sebuah kiasan. Hanya untukku dan dia. 
Aku yang memulai dan biarlah dia yang merasakannya dengan sendirinya, hanya sebuah impian, bangunkan aku jika dia memang ada untukku.. 



Impian yang ingin kujadikan kenyataan. 
Aku ingin menang dari kekalahan ini.. 



About Ace of my Heart.. (By me) 
#yourhighness 



2 December 2013, 23:56